Reflections of Life
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WHAT is LOVE
Back in December 2022, we released a film featuring Antony and Margie, who shared with us some of their views on love and relationships. If you haven't seen this first film, you can watch it here - ua-cam.com/video/pbyQhbZJhwI/v-deo.html
Following the overwhelming response to our initial video, we've received many messages asking for further glimpses into the lives of this fabulous couple. Your voices have been heard, and so we recently visited with them again. During our latest encounter, Antony and Margie chat more about the various stages of married life, and some of their secrets to a successful marriage. Their reflections are sure to resonate deeply with those of you who are seeking guidance on matters of the heart.
“An outstanding love doesn’t come from two half-fulfilled people coming together to make one whole, complete life. Outstanding love comes from two whole people coming together to share and enhance their already full and beautiful lives.” ~Pia Scade
Filmed in Colesburg, South Africa.
Featuring Antony and Margie Osler (www.stoepzen.co.za/accommodation.html)
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Who is Reflections of Life? We are Justine and Michael (previously known as Green Renaissance). We use our passion for filmmaking and our love of storytelling, to remind our audience of one simple truth - that we are all human. The more that we understand and believe in this interconnectedness, the more we will treat ourselves, one another, and planet earth with a greater sense of compassion.
Filming - by Michael Raimondo
Editing - by Justine du Toit
Sound mix - by Tamryn Breakey
In collaboration with iNous, we recently released a beautiful deck of 52 cards - each card containing a quote from one of our films, paired with the activating visual muses of Lanon Prigge. The aim of this deck is to rekindle child-like curiosity and creativity, helping to navigate the shared waters of our human experience with grace and joy. If you’d like to consider purchasing your copy, shop here - tgc.link/reflections
The following music tracks are used in this film :
Rain Over Portofino - by Brightarm Orchestra (via Epidemic Sound)
Cessura - by Ever So Blue (via Epidemic Sound)
A Break in the Clouds - by Isobel O'Connor (via Epidemic Sound)
Family - by Josh Leake (via ArtList)
Late Answer - by Indigo Days (via Epidemic Sound)
With Hope - by Indigo Days (via Epidemic Sound)
After All This Time - by Ben Winwood (via ArtList)
A Second To Forget - by Emily Rubye (via Epidemic Sound)
Into the Forest - by Jakob Ahlbom (via Epidemic Sound)
A huge thank you to these guys, who gave so generously of their to time to help with translations, enabling us to provide subtitles in the following languages:
Albanian - by Denis Skendaj
Arabic - by Frihat Oussama
Croatian - by Davor Bobanac
Czech - by Katarína Borek
Dutch - by Karla Greven
English - by Justine du Toit
French - by Amélie Macoin
German - by Tanja Pütz
Greek - by Vicky Polychroni
Indonesian - by Ary Nuansa
Italian - by Grazia Gironella
Korean - by Hotae Devin Noh
Macedonian - by Lidija Pusevska Markovska
Polish - by Anna Konieczna
Portuguese - by Sibylle Steinpass and Lucivani Valvassori
Slovak - by Zuzana Beratsova
Spanish - by Paty Aguirre
Ukrainian - by Sofia Bespalova
Vietnamese - by Thi Le
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Відео

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SOULMATES - FINDING LOVE
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DO you BELONG?
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When we are misunderstood and unsupported, it’s easy to feel alone, as if we don't quite fit into the world around us. But something beautiful starts to happen when we understand that our uniqueness is not a flaw but a cause for celebration. As we learn to appreciate and share our individual gifts, recognising the beauty in our differences, we find a renewed connection to the world - similar to...
YOU are LIGHT
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Trigger Warning - This film contains reference to sexual assault, which may be triggering for some viewers. If you have been affected by a similar issue and you need someone to talk to, please reach out to an organisation or individual near you for help. Take care. During difficult and dark times, we often feel an overwhelming sense of isolation, as if the weight of our struggles is ours alone ...
ANCIENT WISDOM
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Humanity is one big, eight-billion-person family that lives together on Earth - born on the same planet, covered by the same skies, gazing at the same stars, breathing the same air. We may speak different languages and belong to different cultures, but we are all part of the same human family. And like any other family, we are all unique - we have our own likes and dislikes, our own temperament...
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In the quiet corners of our minds, there's a voice that tends to undermine and sow doubt - the inner critic. The negative one. The one who preys on our insecurities. Confirms our self doubts and attacks our confidence. It might sound like, 'you should', 'why didn’t you?', or 'what’s wrong with you?' Recognising this internal dialogue is important because it so often shapes our actions and decis...
OK to be BROKEN HEARTED
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BEAUTIFUL as you ARE
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BEAUTIFUL as you ARE
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LOST but HAPPY
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LIVE FULLY - RETIRED
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LIVE FULLY - RETIRED
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Thank you PAIN Thank you PLEASURE Thank you LIFE
Lion HEART
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Lion HEART
Be VULNERABLE
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Be VULNERABLE
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Our SOULS are GARDENS
PAIN can be BEAUTIFUL
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PAIN can be BEAUTIFUL

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @Lonelyone1111
    @Lonelyone1111 Годину тому

    No joy my children no longer need are want me im all alone I talk to no one. I text thats all. Life is cruel n empty

  • @Lonelyone1111
    @Lonelyone1111 Годину тому

    TRUTH

  • @blingdesigns
    @blingdesigns Годину тому

    You are a beautiful man. Congrats on being love and the true meaning of life. Appreciate you and you sharing your story to come to me now on UA-cam.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife Годину тому

      You are welcome. Thank you for your kind message, we are glad his story spoke to you. We have a follow-up video with Gary on our channel: 'Wanting To Live' (ua-cam.com/video/5oZevEAijhA/v-deo.html). Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @minakang8105
    @minakang8105 2 години тому

    너무 아름다워요 ^^ 진정한 부부의 모습이네요..

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife Годину тому

      Beautiful, thank you. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @clivegilbert7165
    @clivegilbert7165 4 години тому

    Brilliant

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife Годину тому

      So happy you liked his message. We have a second video with Gary on our channel - it's called 'Wanting To Live' (ua-cam.com/video/5oZevEAijhA/v-deo.html). Kindest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @eddytheman1384
    @eddytheman1384 6 годин тому

    Thank you Margie ,Anthony , Justine and Michael ! I'm pleased to see this magically lovely couple back ! The lightness of their words , smile and humour underscores love and wisdom of their marriage life story.What is love ? Everything ! HPL to ALL !

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife Годину тому

      We are so happy that we could share another video of the two of them with you. They have indeed something very special. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @outlawtendancies8581
    @outlawtendancies8581 7 годин тому

    Thank you

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife Годину тому

      It's a pleasure. Thank you for watching. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @pamthepainter
    @pamthepainter 8 годин тому

    This is truly a gift from God thank you for sharing your wisdom. I'm a 67 year old woman I'm still working how much longer I don't know but thank God for my ability and health

  • @stewartthomas2642
    @stewartthomas2642 8 годин тому

    Love your stuff kick on love it ❤❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🤍

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife Годину тому

      Glad you enjoyed this video. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @JJNow-gg9so
    @JJNow-gg9so 9 годин тому

    BLESS YOU ALWAYS 🙏👵🦋🥀✨

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife Годину тому

      Lovely, thank you. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @patriciapankow1774
    @patriciapankow1774 9 годин тому

    Oh, how is she doing, Reminds of Leonard Cohen, and how the light gets in.

  • @martinstewart
    @martinstewart 10 годин тому

    "It's an incredible thing to be a human being" is an aspiration, not a reality (for many). The rat race kills the souls of all the rats. Find a favourite tree in a favourite space. Your soul mate might not be a person.

  • @Cr333ative
    @Cr333ative 11 годин тому

    Wow, this film really made me crave what they have. Beautiful visuals, a great piece of art.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife Годину тому

      Such a lovely and touching message, may you be able to experience such a special relationship. We also want to thank you for your encouraging words about your filming, it means a lot to us. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @JCHennessy
    @JCHennessy 12 годин тому

    YOu, just INSPIRED ME 📯

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife Годину тому

      That is so wonderful. We are so happy that we could share his story with you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @ComfortVibrations
    @ComfortVibrations 13 годин тому

    I quit my job few days ago and started a UA-cam channel, cause I had enough of my boring and miserable life. Every day was the same and I felt like my life was slipping through my fingers, but the time for changes has finally come! I hope I'll succeed, fingers crossed!

  • @justme8101
    @justme8101 14 годин тому

    They have touched my soul. I didn't want the video to end Thank you all 🙏 ♥️

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife Годину тому

      Beautiful. We are so happy you liked the video so much. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @forward_ever_ever2595
    @forward_ever_ever2595 14 годин тому

    This came at the right time. At 46, i separated from my ex 19 years ago. We have 2 children. I gave the latter my all, just as my parents did for me. Lots of outdoor time, great vacations, top notch private school, which ultimately led to top colleges. I ensured to keep them out of my & their mother's differences, and also enforced the necessity to have respect and honor for their mother & elders in general. They were blessed to know their great grandparents on my side very close. But unfortunately i now realise that their mother had poisined their minds. Now in their late teens there is quite a shift. Father's day mother's day they would not call me or their grandparents....that hurts the latter much😔, as do me as well. Calls / messages are unanswered nor responded to. They would simply say "oh i forgot." Their great grandfather left em a multi-million dollar estate....they simply seem not to care or show interest. I've worked too hard and its time to focus on me and ensure things are good for my parents as they are getting older (thank God they're healthy though). Thank you sir, this vid is the push that i needed.

  • @user-nx8vp5su6j
    @user-nx8vp5su6j 14 годин тому

    There is no wealth but life - John Ruskin

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife Годину тому

      Thank you for sharing this quote. Words to ponder on. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @saramclaughlin2470
    @saramclaughlin2470 14 годин тому

    What does his shirt say? I can only read a few words on it.

  • @vernabryant2894
    @vernabryant2894 14 годин тому

    Talking about bad thinks helps you to heal and it protects us.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife Годину тому

      Thank you for sharing this thought. Speaking about things definitely helps to heal. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @danielsal5442
    @danielsal5442 14 годин тому

    I’m not defending the society as it is today. But it feels like the people in this video never fitted in any group of people. I only get sad seeing them lonely in their farms. The same way they probably look at me. But I am guessing they are as happy/sad as everyone else.

  • @marynewell374
    @marynewell374 15 годин тому

    My goal is to not be afraid!

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife Годину тому

      May her words help, inspire and encourage you. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @naimmohamed8086
    @naimmohamed8086 15 годин тому

    dem

  • @patriciapankow1774
    @patriciapankow1774 15 годин тому

    So happy she found her path. Been there. And yes, I love all animals. Both two- and four-legged.

  • @risharai5096
    @risharai5096 16 годин тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @mrdabaines
    @mrdabaines 16 годин тому

    Wonderful messages. You are a beautiful human being. Peace and love to you. ❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife Годину тому

      Thank you for yuor kind words. Glad you liked the video. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @ozlem3293
    @ozlem3293 16 годин тому

    Right when I was in need - this video pops up in my feed and im in tears. This is a message from the universe. I am grateful for Gina and her very beautiful message.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife Годину тому

      That is so wonderful. We are so thankful this video reached you at this time and touched you so deeply. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @patriciapankow1774
    @patriciapankow1774 16 годин тому

    I very much know her. She is light.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife Годину тому

      Beautiful, such touching words. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @Esther-gv5cn
    @Esther-gv5cn 16 годин тому

    Love your Spirit, Bless you Patrick Dougher.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife Годину тому

      So kind, thank you. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @faizeladam1404
    @faizeladam1404 17 годин тому

    A pure heart ❤️

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife Годину тому

      Very much so. Glad you enjoyed the story John shared. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @janet1924
    @janet1924 18 годин тому

    Beautiful soul ❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife Годину тому

      Thank you for your kind words, we are glad you liked the video. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @patriciapankow1774
    @patriciapankow1774 18 годин тому

    He's just beautiful. And spreading it around like apple seeds.

  • @-CSE-SayaniBhowmik
    @-CSE-SayaniBhowmik 18 годин тому

    Heart warming 18 minutes. I thank my luck that I stopped watching at something like this. There are tons of content available but specifically this one was "extraordinary"

  • @sf-lv2wm
    @sf-lv2wm 19 годин тому

    I get alive watching this sorta great videos. Thanks much.

  • @sf-lv2wm
    @sf-lv2wm 19 годин тому

    Loneliness is an inevitable part of human existence

  • @19snoopy64
    @19snoopy64 19 годин тому

    It's beautiful how you appreciate each other. I have been a widow since I was 55.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife 19 годин тому

      Touching words. Sorry to read about the early passing of your husband. Sending much love and kindness to you. Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @19snoopy64
      @19snoopy64 18 годин тому

      @@ReflectionsofLife Thank you dear people. The world needs more people like you.

  • @ladytube64
    @ladytube64 19 годин тому

    Love this....

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife 19 годин тому

      We are so glad. Thank you for watching. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @rinya053
    @rinya053 19 годин тому

    While watching this, I'm smiling and in tears at the same time. They are love😘❤. Thank youu for such beautiful and refreshing clip💖.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife 19 годин тому

      It's an absolute pleasure. It makes us so happy to read your message, so glad we could share this love story with you. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @rootzero
    @rootzero 19 годин тому

    Thank you ❤️

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife 19 годин тому

      You are most welcome. Thank you for watching. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @bethelshiloh
    @bethelshiloh 19 годин тому

    I’m 74. Simply cannot face eternity without having more assurance. My hope is built on nothing less than Jesus’ blood and righteousness.

  • @hlengiwehlatshwayo8667
    @hlengiwehlatshwayo8667 20 годин тому

    Me

  • @soundararajan4268
    @soundararajan4268 21 годину тому

    Thanks

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife 21 годину тому

      Thank you so much for supporting our work, we appreciate it a lot. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael 💚

    • @soundararajan4268
      @soundararajan4268 21 годину тому

      @@ReflectionsofLife welcome 🙏

  • @estherferrandez2206
    @estherferrandez2206 22 години тому

    MOVING... So much to learn. Many of us want what they have but... there's so much to learn before... Thank you. ❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife 21 годину тому

      It's a pleasure. We are glad their story meant much to you. May what Antony and Margie shared help and inspire. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @ConnieBrown-gu6bb
    @ConnieBrown-gu6bb 23 години тому

    This was so lovely❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife 21 годину тому

      Really glad you enjoyed it so much. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @hadeelalharthi46
    @hadeelalharthi46 23 години тому

    Your words are very touching to my heart, and I advise you to research and explore the Quran, because you will learn more about life, and I believe that you will love it very much.

  • @enjoypladecorrals
    @enjoypladecorrals День тому

    Rest in peace. Remarkable testimony of his life

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife 23 години тому

      Thank you for your kind words. He was such a beautiful soul who touched the lives of many. His light continues to shine brightly, touching the hearts of all of those who continue to hear his story. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @langyawdiaries
    @langyawdiaries День тому

    Powerful message! 🥺❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife 23 години тому

      We are glad her words meant much to you. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @mrsANGRYh
    @mrsANGRYh День тому

    My heart is so full from hearing these two darling hearts. 💓 Thank you. 🙏

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife 23 години тому

      It's an absolute pleasure. We are so happy their message touched you so deeply. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @creativenative6210
    @creativenative6210 День тому

    Who is this beautiful woman? I want to follow her and her art?

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife 23 години тому

      Thank you for asking. Her name is L. Frank. These details are also in the write-up below the video. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚